Many people have anger management problems when they drink alcohol. Would you say that you are one of these people or do you know a person who struggles to control their anger when they are drunk? If you have answered this question in the positive then this article may well be of benefit to you.
I am not personally involved with anger management as a career, I actually offer people help to gain lower business overheads and work with a number of cost reduction specialists.
I was only reading this morning on the BBC news website about the convictions for murder of two young men who had killed when under the influence of alcohol. They had become involved with an altercation with another man and one of the men then decided to punch him. He fell to the ground and then the second man for some unknown reason kicked him in the head. It was believed that it was his head hitting the pavement that caused him to die rather than the punch and kick of the two men but despite this they were both convicted.
Now in this case three mens lives have been ruined as a direct result of alcohol and the way in which it caused two seemingly educated and normally law obiding citizens to "lash out". I seriously doubt whether they would have acted in this way had they been sober not that this in anyway should be a defence.
Both men have stated how sorry they are and about how guilty they feel; I for one feel sorry for them both as they will have to live with what they have done for the rest of their lives plus they will spend a number of their best years behind bars. Then there is the families of these two men - they too will have been badly affected by the whole ordeal.
Then, of course, there is the person who has of died, a waste of a promising life, and of course his family. I have and will continue to pray for them all. I have to say that it is a real tragedy.
I have actually completely stopped drinking alcohol, something that when I was younger helped me to speak in a fluent manner. I had a stutter for eighteen years of my life and alcohol enabled me to gain the confidence to talk without the fear of stuttering.
I have now managed to overcome the stutter and with the help of a DVD authoring company have produced a seventy minute DVD which describes my journey to fluency along with the techniques required to stop stuttering.
For people who do become aggressive when they drink alcohol, please learn the lessons from above before you also ruin the lives of yourself, your family and innocent bystanders.
